the magic happened

With Traci in my corner I always feel anything is possible!

“I started working with Traci in June 2015, after a thorough vetting process. We met in person before working together and Traci was easy to talk with and made me feel very comfortable. I asked for 3 references to confirm my initial impressions. Her references provided glowing recommendations, and now after working with Traci myself, I can concur wholeheartedly – finding Traci is like striking gold! Traci and I share many values, among them is the importance of being authentic. Our work together is a continuous inquiry into who I am, what I want in a partner, and what the next steps are to help me be in the relationship I desire. Traci’s expertise and gifted intuition has me approaching dating and relationships in a new and empowering way. Thanks to her expert and compassionate coaching, I met someone special on August 30. We are in an authentic, fun, pleasurable and intimate relationship. We’ve hit the occasional rough patch, and Traci has been there to help me see his perspective and my opportunity for growth. I am deeply grateful to her for helping me prepare myself!!”

~ Beth, 52, Chicago, IL

Everyone in search of a great relationship can benefit from having an exceptional coach like her!

“Traci taught me to be patient, live my life and constantly strive to improve myself, rather than existing in the limbo of “waiting for love” and focusing on the mistakes I had made in the pursuit of love. Thanks to her coaching, I changed my paradigm and found true love.”

~ B.R., 40, San Diego, CA

She’s the BEST matchmaker there is, and she does it because she loves it!


“When I first started working with Traci, I was VERY apprehensive about jumping back into the dating world. She encouraged me, motivated me, and basically held my hand every step of the way. She is a true networker, and was actually out “marketing” me to quality women who I never would have met otherwise. I am the happiest I have ever been in my entire life, and owe that to Traci! There is no other person, or service, out there like her.”

~ H.S. 65, San Diego, CA

If you’re looking for love, look no further!

“In the past couple years I wasn’t having much luck with dating and always felt like I was out in the same places, meeting the same type of guys and nothing was working. Recently, after a long day at home on the couch in my pajamas, Traci very sternly and loving explained that I needed to take action if I truly wanted love in my life. Not only that, she had a great guy that she felt would be the perfect fit for me. After a little more convincing, I dragged myself off the couch, got dolled up and BOOM – Traci was right! Not only was the guy she introduced me to that night handsome & funny, we also share similar values, wants, likes and personality traits. He and I have been dating since and things are moving along beautifully. Traci understands the delicate balance it takes to match personalities, beliefs and love languages to create true chemistry. I am beyond thankful for Traci’s continued role as my “Love Sherpa” and her true commitment to others happiness is above and beyond commendable. “

~ M.C., 29, Carlsbad, CA

Traci is like the Buddha of Love!

“I met her at just the right time when I’d pretty much given up on finding a good man. Her knowledge on dating and men was enlightening. She gave me insights that shifted everything for me. With her weekly guidance I felt like I had a little dating angel on my shoulder. I really think I may have passed up on the amazing man I met had Traci not helped me see what was truly special about him. She really helped me dust off the cobwebs and trust men again. Man oh man is she worth every penny!”

~ R.H., 39, Los Angeles, CA

She is the guru everyone should be lucky to know!

“Dating has always been somewhat scary to me. From the first time I met Traci, I could tell she was confident, and had a true passion for helping others connect and find love. She is proud of her business, speaks from the heart, and made me feel like I was her only client. Her vast network is impressive! One of the biggest lessons I learned from her relationship coach was how to let go of my fears. Together, Traci and I wrote relationship goals and an on-line profile. She gave me dating tips and weekly homework assignments to get to know myself better. I received regular contact from her to discuss progress and roadblocks. She is a stickler for accountability and even called me out on things I said I would do. Excuses were not accepted!

The thing I love about Traci is her candor, integrity and consistency in her beliefs. I have been struggling for years over my current relationship and I truly believe things happen for a reason. When Traci and I connected, she instantly grasped my situation and showed me the light. I FINALLY have clarity and I know she won’t take the credit but her ability to size up a situation and provide encouragement and expert guidance is invaluable. She has always been very level- headed and I’m so grateful for that. I’m in such a better place and I hope to stay in touch with her.”

~ Barbara, 46, Washington D.C.

My perfect match IS out there!

“I have been single and dating for YEARS….and simply refused to settle. My partnership with Traci brought more value than I can express! She instantly brought an amazing group of people into my life. From her network of relationship experts, I learned things about my past that hampered me from showing up as my best self while dating, as well as new strategies for getting clarity on what I am truly looking for, and having FUN with the process.

Together, Traci and I cleverly wrote and managed my on-line profile in a way that truly reflected who I am, and what I’m looking for. Even the pictures she took and chose were wonderful!

Her on-line assessments helped bring even more clarity to whom I am as a person, and what kind of match will be the most successful for me.

She is the queen of follow up! I heard from her time after time to discuss my dates, what was working, what was NOT, and what we can do better next time.

I have dated more in the first month of working with Traci than I have in the past 5 years. I am a busy and happy girl! Every day I get closer and closer thanks to Traci and Love by Design!”

~ L.R., 40, Encinitas, CA

Thanks to Traci, today I am married to him!

“Without love, you have nothing.  And although I had a great job, amazing friends and I had just purchased my first home, something was missing. I knew my “perfect someone” was out there, but after countless blind dates and numerous awkward set-ups, I was frustrated!  That is when Traci came into my life.  I trusted Traci with my love life because she is passionate about what she does and she genuinely cares about the people she works with.  First, Traci got to know me and find out what I was all about.  Next she set out to find my perfect match …He is amazing and my life changes 2 years ago when Traci introduced me to him. “

~ A.P., 32, San Diego